The final week in the house wasn’t just about the jitters of the approaching finale. Housemates dug deep, spilling their stories and revealing how their experiences have molded them into the powerful individuals they are today.

This week, we saw Nsuku and Uyanda get real – unpacking their backgrounds and personalities while reflecting on what’s made them who they are. Uyanda shared with Nsuku how growing up in a household where he couldn’t express his feelings built up some serious anger, making him snap a little quicker than he’d like.

Uyanda has had his fair share of heated moments this season, often finding himself in altercations with other housemates, some which led to overblown reactions that left him feeling embarrassed. The most recent incident, where he flipped the house upside down and left Jojo crying her eyes out, earned him a strike. That night, Uyanda felt like it was time to set the record straight and went rogue, letting everything boil over.

Nsuku, feeling for Uyanda, expressed that she appreciated their conversation, as there were times when she struggled to understand why he was so easily triggered and quick to retaliate. She also shared her own journey of growing up as a strong, melanin rich black woman, revealing how her skin tone was often a topic of discussion. Nsuku admitted that she could have lightened her skin, but instead, she chose to embrace her natural beauty after learning to love herself fully.

As the housemates continued to open up about their personal journeys, Nate and Jojo also touched on the topic of mental health and how their past experiences have affected them. Nate shared with Jojo how she was bullied as a child and how people around her always told her that she wasn’t good enough. She told Jojo that motivation was only a myth to her and that she was always told others were doing better than her. She said she had to unlearn all these things and now deals with negativity in a much healthier way.

Jojo comforted Nate, assuring her that she fully understands her struggles. She then opened up about her own experiences growing up as a pastor’s kid, explaining how she’s always had the fear of disappointing others because she feels like she represents her entire family. Jojo admitted that this pressure has limited her in many ways, holding her back from fully expressing herself.

Meanwhile, Sweet Guluva also opened up to Uyanda about his background, sharing how he had to grow up quickly when his brother left home to live in Joburg. He took on the responsibility of being the head of the house and had to start working at a young age. Sweet Guluva acknowledged that growing up in the village came with its challenges, but he’s proud of how his family managed to avoid hardship. He expressed pride in how far he’s come and the person he’s become.

Day 68: Love, ships and situation-ships in the Umlilo house – BBMzansi

In the final week, the housemates shared powerful moments of self-reflection and growth. From Uyanda confronting his anger to Nsuku embracing her natural beauty, Nate and Jojo opening up about mental health struggles, and Sweet Guluva reflecting on his responsibilities, the house became a space for healing and personal discovery. These heart-to-heart conversations highlighted how far they’ve come and the strength they've gained from their experiences. 

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